Making a woman orgasm through penetration is primarily about two things:
1.) Her Psychology
2.) Her Physiology
If this has started to sound like science lessons don’t worry, I’ll simplify everything into language we men really understand:
Psychology – this put simply means that you put a woman in the mood for sex. Sometimes this means acting like a caveman, she gives you that look, you’ve just had that argument, you’re out and about in a public place and she kisses you a little more passionately than usual.
The simple fact is that understanding this aspect of making a woman orgasm is a matter of guessing correctly which mood she is in or actively putting her in the right mood, this may variously be a strong manly grab around the waist or handing her a glass of wine after a hard day at work, setting up candles and running her a bath etc. etc.
Now most of the confusion on this subject comes from the very unhelpful fact that overwhelmingly the advice given on the internet focuses on these ‘psychological’ elements because for women, they are the more important.
Now as a man what you need to know is this and i’ll get the boo/hisses from any girl reading BUT, as a man you need to focus on her physiology in order to make her orgasm through penetration. It’s simply a fact that 70% of what will make her orgasm in penetration is simply remembering this:
Always Be thinking ‘Clitoris’… ABC…
What this means is that you need to forget what you watch on porn, forget those Tom Cruise movies where the man always raises himself up on the strength of his arms in a romantic, intimate eye lock and over exaggerated pelvic movement… No… When you’re performing in any sexual position you need to be stimulating the clitoris, this means always guys!
There are two ways and two ways only to make a woman orgasm – through her clitoris and through her G-Spot – the Clitoris is by far and away the easiest. This means, when you are:
1.) In Missionary – always have your pelvis griding as close as physically possible to her pubic bone, directly on top of it, causing as much friction against the area of the clitoris as possible. If you want to go for the G-Spot, put a pillow or sometimes even two under her buttocks, this both raises her public bone up so that you can grind more closely against it and also by lowering your waist towards the bed and thrusting ‘up’ against her front wall, you’ll be maximising the pressure on her G-Spot area;
2.) Her on Top – ABC – always be thinking clitoris. If she’s sitting on top of you, use your hand on her hips to pull her down on your shaft so that the bottom of your shaft will be connecting directly with the clitoris. Equally, if she leans over to kiss you, use your hand on her hips to grind her pelvis forward and backwards so that it is grinding directly on the clitoral area.
Those are two basic tips but the essence of how to make a woman orgasm through penetration resides in the ABC rule.
Now I want to jump back a stage, once you’ve firmly got it into your head to ABC, remember this as well, foreplay is the part of sex where you have most control over her body. It’s where you can tease her, stimulate her, frustrate her, annoy her to your hearts content.
A good penetrative orgasm will start to build with your mastery of foreplay. Take your time, undress her, kiss her whole body (but for example don’t go near her vagina), take your time to explore her and stimulate all of her erogenous zones (which you should know, if you don’t start reading up on them!) you will notice that eventually she’ll start pulling you up because she wants you inside her.
When she is at this stage and you enter her, then ABC kicks in. It’s close, it’s animalistic, it’s grinding and sweaty, it’s not the Tom Cruise tricep marathon, it’s a matter of pressing your lower half as strongly against her lower half as you can and taking long measured strokes…
How to make a girl fall in love with you
Knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you is like fishing with dynamite. It can yield amazing results, but it can also be incredibly dangerous. Use these 5 techniques to make girls fall in love with you, but please, please be careful! If you don’t love the girl, yet you make her fall in love with you, then you are going to have serious problems. Women will be really upset to find out that you do not love them and have just been leading them on. This article presumes that you have already attracted her using either the Pick Up Artist guide or Dating Tips for Guys and are in some sort of a relationship. Now that you’ve read the warning….
It’s important that you are both on the same wavelength. You need to share some common interests/hobbies but most importantly you must share many common beliefs (be it God, how you should raise your kids, how people should treat each other, why chocolate chip ice cream is the best ice cream ever, etc). Your common beliefs don’t necessarily need to be serious. They can be anything; the important thing is that you both truly believe them.
This will help you to both form a connection that will be strengthened by trust….
People think that trust is built by being nice to people and doing what they ask. This is not quite correct. Trust is built between 2 people through honesty. If you can be honest with your partner, this will strengthen your connection.
The best way to be honest when learning how to make a girl fall in love with you is to disagree with your girl on topics that won’t offend her. So if you don’t like Coca-Cola and she does, don’t be afraid to tell her. Think about this. Would you trust someone that tells you they like everything you like? Probably not. No way. That’s why it’s important to disagree with her on certain things to build trust and strengthen your connection. Building trust is absolutely key to knowing how to make a girl fall in love with you.
Many dating gurus will tell you that in order to get a girl attracted, you need to be elusive and scarce, to keep her on her toes. This is absolutely true. It will make her attracted to you, but it is not how to make a girl fall in love with you.
To make a girl fall deeply in love with you, it is vital that she is swept up in a whirlwind of love. You need to maybe call her 3 times in one day, then none the next day, then twice the next day. Obviously keep it random, but you need to keep up constant contact and be hanging out at least 3 times a week together. Part of making a girl fall in love with you is sweeping her off her feet in a whirlwind of romance. If she is attracted to you already (remember this stuff doesn’t work unless she is already attracted to you, so read some of the articles at Dating Tips for Guys if she’s not attracted yet), then you appearing to fall in love with her, will help her fall in love with you.
Planning for the future is one thing, but if you are going nowhere in your own life, then girls will not want to stick around. To prevent this from happening, you need to make sure that your life is together. Do you have a good source of income? Do you have friends outside of your relationship? Are you fit and healthy? Are you moving in a direction that is positive and exciting? If any of the answers to these questions is NO, then you need to get your act together because quality girls only want to be with guys that have purpose and are going somewhere in their lives. Using all the above step on how to make a girl fall in love with you are useless without having purpose in your life.
How to make a woman orgasm with your fingers.
The golden rules are to be gentle and make sure that your fingers are wet before inserting them. Once your fingers are inside her do not presume that just because you want to use them hard and fast that she will like this because she won’t. A woman likes you to show consideration and take it easy, don’t forget how delicate her vagina is. Keep your fingers inside and use them as if you were beckoning someone to come to you, you will soon notice that she is getting wetter with every movement and this is when you should speed up.
As she gets more into into it you will be able to push deeper and will feel a firm piece of tissue that feels like an inverted finger tip (when you feel it you will know what I mean). Stop with the beckoning now and rub this in a circular motion until you make your woman orgasm with your fingers. The great thing about doing this is that she will most likely pleasure you with her hands at the same time.
How to make a woman orgasm with your tongue.
As above you need to take your time and lick her very slowly at first, it takes a little longer to make your woman orgasm by licking her vagina but her climax will be ten times more powerful than the ones given with your fingers. Women love oral but only when it is given properly and with skill and consideration. The best way is to start licking and kissing her outer lips first to get get them wet, then slowly put your tongue inside and alternate between licking and putting your tongue in. It will not take long before she is unable to keep still, such is the pleasure that she is getting.
Keep the licks slow until she is wriggling about and the start to turn up the heat a bit at a time until she is getting loud. By now her clitoris should have taken it’s hood off ready for you to apply the finishing touches. It is crucial that you stimulate this gently or you will have her pushing you away. Just a few nice flicks of your tongue will suffice and she will be having an orgasm like no other.
So next time your girlfriend feels horny but wants an orgasm without intercourse you can make your woman orgasm with your fingers or your tongue.